In his debut novel, Rubenstein, a rabbi of 40 years who has officiated over 3,000 weddings, interweaves Jewish culture, tradition, and practical advice in a light, sentimental love story. Hilary “Hillie” Gordon and Jay Jaworski’s engagement is clouded by Jay’s mother, who does not approve of the 30-somethings’ interfaith relationship. Hillie’s family is Catholic, Jay’s is Jewish, and neither feels strongly about religion, but they both care about tradition. The likable Rabbi Sam Glassman patiently helps the young couple handle this hurdle and other logistical wedding details, drawing on his experience and unique perspective. There is a sense of nostalgia and sweetness reflected in Hillie and Jay’s relationship. The descriptions lack sensuality and are flat at times, and the flow is interrupted and the book’s message is diluted by lists of what a wedding planner does and the information about venues featured in the story, but Rabbi Glassman’s warmth and blend of modern and traditional wisdom are clear. The importance of love, faith, and flexibility is foregrounded in this pleasant mix of wedding guide and love story.
Source: PW Review